Rethinking Video Games

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Could video games actually be used for something other than sending upset fowl flying through the air or building make-believe pets that then have to be cared for?  In this article at KQED.org, the author makes a compelling case for why the right kind of video came can be a useful tool in helping our children learn how to think:  http://blogs.kqed.org/mindshift/2012/02/how-computer-games-help-children-learn/

It seems that, if used properly, computer games can be a way to expand critical thinking and reasoning skills.  Now if I could only get past the Pigs in Space level on the other game...


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Moira Sullivan

Moira uses a holistic approach that promotes healthy development in the child while honoring and supporting their relationship with their family and the community. A graduate of San Jose State University, she has advanced training in sensory integration, visual perception and visual-motor integration, DIR Floortime, oral motor rehabilitation, strength and endurance training, and myofascial release.

A Community of/for Parents

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Parents, we need to give ourselves and each other a break.  Almost daily I talk with mothers, fathers, stepmothers and stepfathers who feel as though, if they are not providing for their children's every need 100% of the time, they are failing.  They feel judged by others if their child is not the star in every category: academics, sports, music, popularity with peers...  you name it.

I wonder how much of the pressure is perception versus reality.  Whatever the source, it's time to create a new culture for ourselves and the children we love.  Some observations:

* By accepting our own imperfections, we allow our children to be imperfect.  This will alleviate pressure and allow them to become fully who they are.

* By taking care of ourselves we help our children to value themselves and each other.

* By showing love and respect to our significant others, we model treating each other with respect and dignity.

* By saying no when appropriate and sticking to it, we teach our children resilience and boundaries.

Having to accept at times a less than starring role will not derail any child and typically, after the initial disappointment, will help them build the resourcefulness and strength of character that will serve them well throughout their lives.

Welcome to the far less than perfect club, everyone.  I've been a member for years!
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Moira Sullivan

Moira uses a holistic approach that promotes healthy development in the child while honoring and supporting their relationship with their family and the community. A graduate of San Jose State University, she has advanced training in sensory integration, visual perception and visual-motor integration, DIR Floortime, oral motor rehabilitation, strength and endurance training, and myofascial release.

Insights on Autism

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The internet is a magical place.  It can help people connect across time and space, and help us all understand each other.

The following is a link to a video clip done by a young man with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).  In this and other clips he has posted, he tries to let everyone else know what it's like to have ASD and what he feels can and should be done about it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kV-eRathoA4

This is valuable insight not only for those of us who know people with ASD, but for all of us to make society a more inclusive and welcoming place for everyone.

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Moira Sullivan

Moira uses a holistic approach that promotes healthy development in the child while honoring and supporting their relationship with their family and the community. A graduate of San Jose State University, she has advanced training in sensory integration, visual perception and visual-motor integration, DIR Floortime, oral motor rehabilitation, strength and endurance training, and myofascial release.